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Are these really the worst of times?

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

Do you know any negative people?

Some folks have trouble finding the bright side of things. We’re at the beginning of a fresh, New Year, a chance to develop new habits and even a new attitude, but many people have trouble getting with the program.

My mother was one of those negative people. She was a good woman, but I remember her complaining a lot about her husband and her sons.

For various reasons, she wasn’t able to feel good even when her life was going well. When mom was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer in 1992, she was forced to realize that those “negative” years would be the best years of her life. Such a shame.

Anytime is a great time for resolutions and self-improvement, but The New Year is a great time to recognize the sound of opportunity knocking and be grateful for all the good stuff in your life.

These are the best of times, if you want them to be. What do you think? Are these the best of times or the worst of times?

What if these are the best of times?

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

Composed in Baton Rouge, Louisiana-

Mom and dad play 1957 You’d never know it from this photo of my mom and dad, but my mom was a negative person.  Please don’t think that I’m speaking badly of her now that she’s been deceased for 15 years.

Our family talked openly about this with her when she got into one of her frequent funks and when she had her nervous breakdown.

The truth is that mom had trouble looking at the bright side of things.  She wasn’t able to feel good even when her life was going well.  When mom contracted terminal lung cancer in 1992, she was forced to realize that those “negative” years would be the happiest days of her life.  Such a shame.

It’s also sad to read that many companies are cutting back on their 401ks or pulling out of them altogether.  Employees that could have enjoyed matching contributions to their savings for many years will not have that opportunity any longer.  That opportunity to save money might be the best financial opportunity they will ever see.

Anytime is a great time for resolutions and self-improvement, but The New Year is a great time to recognize the sound of opportunity knocking and be grateful for all the good stuff in your life.

Even with all the bad news of 2008, these are the best of times and 2009 will be even better.