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What if these are the best of times?

Tuesday, February 15th, 2011

airplaneOrlando and other hot spots are in high season and spring break will be here before you know it.

The travel season generates lots of negative publicity about how bad the travel industry treats us.

Older folks wistfully comment about the “good old days” when airlines treated customers better and travel wasn’t such a hassle.

But, what if these are the good old days?

Objective research indicates that what we’re experiencing now are the best of times, at least when compared to how things used to be.

Flying, for example has never been easier or more affordable, according to a recent USA Today article by John Waggoner.

Although the airline industry has made many improvements through the years, the big change was when the government deregulated the industry in 1978, which opened up competition.

Here are the facts about how much better things are compared to the “good old days:”

- In 1978, fliers paid about 27.9 cents a mile; they pay an average of 12.1 cents for each mile flown today.

- Until the 1970′s seat assignments were not available in advance.

- Flight attendants may have worn white gloves back in the day, but it used to take 14 hours and multiple stops to fly from New York to Barcelona.

-The Air Transport Association reports that in the period from 1965-69, there were 39 accidents involving fatalities on scheduled commercial flights operated by U.S. airlines.  In 2005-2009, there were six.

- Airports have become min-cities, filled with amenities such as high-end shopping, massage therapists, and cuisine from all over the world.


So why do  we think things are getting worse?

Memory, the media, and something called “group think” play a role.

Our brains tend to accentuate the positive and gloss over the negative when reviewing old memories.

The media–and gossip–for that matter, thrive on bad news and the act of stirring things up.   Now social media sites such as Twitter and Facebook have become a breeding ground for complaints rather than compliments.

Finally, people like to identify with other people who have problems.  Misery loves company and all that.

Maybe things aren’t so bad for right now.  Maybe we’re just that much more efficient at complaining.

What if these are the best of times?

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Michael Angelo Caruso is a communication consultant and accomplished author based in Royal Oak, Michigan.

Are these really the worst of times?

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

Do you know any negative people?

Some folks have trouble finding the bright side of things. We’re at the beginning of a fresh, New Year, a chance to develop new habits and even a new attitude, but many people have trouble getting with the program.

My mother was one of those negative people. She was a good woman, but I remember her complaining a lot about her husband and her sons.

For various reasons, she wasn’t able to feel good even when her life was going well. When mom was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer in 1992, she was forced to realize that those “negative” years would be the best years of her life. Such a shame.

Anytime is a great time for resolutions and self-improvement, but The New Year is a great time to recognize the sound of opportunity knocking and be grateful for all the good stuff in your life.

These are the best of times, if you want them to be. What do you think? Are these the best of times or the worst of times?

What if these are the best of times?

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

Composed in Baton Rouge, Louisiana-

Mom and dad play 1957 You’d never know it from this photo of my mom and dad, but my mom was a negative person.  Please don’t think that I’m speaking badly of her now that she’s been deceased for 15 years.

Our family talked openly about this with her when she got into one of her frequent funks and when she had her nervous breakdown.

The truth is that mom had trouble looking at the bright side of things.  She wasn’t able to feel good even when her life was going well.  When mom contracted terminal lung cancer in 1992, she was forced to realize that those “negative” years would be the happiest days of her life.  Such a shame.

It’s also sad to read that many companies are cutting back on their 401ks or pulling out of them altogether.  Employees that could have enjoyed matching contributions to their savings for many years will not have that opportunity any longer.  That opportunity to save money might be the best financial opportunity they will ever see.

Anytime is a great time for resolutions and self-improvement, but The New Year is a great time to recognize the sound of opportunity knocking and be grateful for all the good stuff in your life.

Even with all the bad news of 2008, these are the best of times and 2009 will be even better.