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How to download photos from your iPhone

Sunday, November 13th, 2011

iphone michael angelo caruso blogThe remarkably intuitive iPhone is surprisingly dumb when it comes to downloading photos.

Some people chalk this up to Apple’s long history of not playing nice with the Windows operating system.

No matter.  When it’s time to move pics from your phone to your ‘puter, you’re certainly not in the mood to do research.

So, here are the steps.


How to download photos from your iPhone

1)  Connect your phone to the PC, using the USB cable provided.

2) An Apple iPhone window will appear, telling you that a “camera is connected” or something like that. Select “Microsoft Scanner and Camera Wizard” or “Download pictures from a camera or scanner” and click “OK.”

3) You’ll see the “Scanner and Camera Wizard.”  Click “Next.”

4) You’ll see thumbnail versions of the pics on your iPhone.  All the checked photos will be copied to the computer.  Click “Next.”

5) The next window, “Picture Name and Destination,” allows you to name the group of pictures and choose a place to save this group of picture.


A few more tips

michael angelo caruso blogIf all or most of the photos are Halloween images, you can save time labeling each individual shot by labeling the group “Halloween.”

Be sure to check the “Delete pictures from my device after copying them” box or you’ll have to delete the original iPhone photos manually, one at at a time.

That’s it!  You’re done!

I share my best pics at www.Facebook.com/MichaelAngeloCarusoNow

-Michael Angelo Caruso, Royal Oak, Michigan

Top 10 excuses for not being great

Tuesday, November 8th, 2011

Top 10 Excuses For Not Being Great
from www.MichaelAngeloCaruso.com

Michael Angelo Caruso and Oscar blog greatEveryone has the ability to be great.  In fact, greatness is probably the most natural of all achievements.  So why don’t more of us achieve greatness?  One reason is that we get in our own way.  Another reason is that we often don’t receive the right amount of encouragement.

By the way, there are varying degrees of greatness.  You may never win an Oscar, for example, but you may get to hold one.  :-)

Here are the top ten excuses for not being great, along with some quick  advice on how you can achieve greatness.


Top 10 excuses for not being great


1. You don’t know how.

Huh? You’re kidding, right? You don’t know how to do something? I have one word for you: Google.

Need a book? Your public library has thousands and you won’t have to wait in line because nobody goes there.

Need tutelage? Hire a coach.

Information is more accessible now than any other point in history and most of it is free. Get good at accessing what you need to know. It’s your ticket to greatness.


2. You don’t know the right people.

As with information, people are more accessible than ever before. Nearly anyone you need to know can be found on Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin or YouTube.

Make yourself a little more available and you’re half way there.

The average person actually stops trying to be likable as he or she gets older. Most people on Facebook sign up about 145 friends and stop. Become a bit more psychologically attractive and you will connect with the right people.


3. You don’t have the money.

Dollar sign Michael Angelo Caruso blogThis is a math problem everyone can solve. There are two major ways that you can have more money.

The first way is to reduce expenses and save the extra money for whatever you’d like or need. Create a strict budget, and set aside a portion of your income. This may include sacrificing, a lost art among a society that strongly identifies with comfort.

The second way to have more money is to earn more. See “comfort” above. You can earn more by getting a better paying job, also known as “leaving your comfort zone.” Earning more often means working harder or at least applying yourself.

Would you like to double the amount of money you earn now? Get a second job! If you really want the money, you’ll do it.

One of the easiest ways to earn money is to proffer your intellectual property. You can do this by creating a short e-book that offers information on how to do something. You’re probably really good at something, right?

Tell others how to do it in a Word document, save the document to a .pdf that you can sell online and off. Sell ten e-books at $10 each and you’ll have an extra $100.

It doesn’t matter who you are, where you live or what the economical climate is like. Money is all around you. Go get it.


4. Someone else is already doing it.

Which came first, Copyblogger or Problogger? Groupon or Living Social? Dyson or Hoover? Yahoo or Hotmail?

You don’t know? Very few will people will care if you’re not first to market as long as your offering has a unique and worthwhile value.

A guy named Elisha Gray filed for a patent on a new invention called the telephone three hours after Alexander Graham Bell.

Count on it. Someone, somewhere is already doing what you’re doing. Work around them.


5. You’ll get to it later.

Maybe you’ll be great later. But history teaches us that life introduces all sorts of distractions in the game of life.

Face it, you’re only going to get busier.

Now is the time to put “greatness” on your calendar. Schedule it, then accomplish it. It’s called “greatness” partly because it’ll make you feel great!


6. You’re not ready for that level of success.

Success is a head game of sorts.

You’re trying to achieve something new, so how do you ever really know if you’re ready? What does “ready” even mean?

Stop making excuses and realize you’ll like life better when you’re in a better place.

Oh, you’re ready, trust me. And if greatness occurs and you’re not ready, you’ll get ready in a hurry.


7. There are too many obstacles.

This is true, but it’s not a good excuse for dodging greatness.

Heroes do things that others are unwilling or unable to do.

To find the treasure, you must be born into misfortune, get beat up by bad guys, be betrayed by your best friend, find love and lose it, and have a really bad accident.

And then, after you’re totally exhausted, you get to slay a dragon.

Hey, if being a hero was easy, everyone would do it.


8. You don’t have a (good) website.

A killer website is always useful for success and greatness. But if you don’t have one, you have options. If your current crappy website needs a redesign, hire someone to redesign it.

Meanwhile, you can promote, brand, and even sell from a free blog site. Post on other people’s blogs, but never promote yourself without permission. There are clever ways to sell on social media platforms.

Many people make money from affiliate marketing, which allows revenue to flow to you after you recommend products and services to your distribution list.

Website, schmebsite.


9. You’re too tired.

Being tired all the time is not normal.

Good health is important and certainly makes it easier to be great. Sufficient rest is part of good health. Go to bed earlier, if necessary, but establish a working rhythm that feels like success.


10. You’re just not confident enough.

There are two ways a human being comes into intelligence: genetic predisposition and learned behavior. Confidence is a learned behavior.

Listen to self-help programs and motivational messages. These total strangers will say things to you that your loved ones will not. It sounds implausible, but if you listen often enough to the right people, you will begin to believe there is greatness in you. And you know what? There is!

Want to really see something? Stand back

Friday, October 28th, 2011

Busch stadium arch Michael Angelo Caruso blogI’m writing this blog post during commercials for game seven of the World Series.  The Texas Rangers are playing the St. Louis Cardinals and the Cards are home at Busch Stadium.

It’s cute how the groundskeepers have cut an arch into the outfield grass as a tribute to St. Louis’ most famous landmark.

If you’ve been to St. Louis, you’ve probably visited the St. Louis Gateway Arch, the tallest man made monument in the United States, which is located in Malcolm W. Martin Memorial Park on the west bank of the Mississippi River.

And if you’ve visited the Arch, you’ve probably had your photo taken with the famous landmark.  At least, you tried to have that photo taken.

St. Louis Arch michael angleo caruso blogThe St. Louis Arch is 630 feet high and just as wide. You could put two football fields end-to-end between the bases of the Arch.

It’s a magnificent structure that is almost impossible to photograph while visiting it.  Many tourists end up taking a shot of themselves at the base of the arch, which looks like a stainless steel.

A few years ago, authorities finally opened a viewing deck, but some think the best way to photograph the Arch is from the roof of the nearby Ramada Hotel.

From that vantage point, you can have your photographer position the Arch over your shoulder as he or she snaps a photo.

You see, sometimes the best way to see something is to step away from it.

-Michael Angelo Caruso, Author and speaker, Royal Oak, Michigan

Hard ass, Steve Jobs, softens us up

Saturday, October 8th, 2011

Steve Jobs Michael Angelo Caruso blog Steve Jobs was not known as a sentimental softie, yet his passing is still a tender memory for people all over the world.  Clearly, his death has gotten a lot of us to think about how we spend our lives and what we do with our time.

Humans are creatures of habit. We are more likely to do things we’ve done before than to try something new. We drive the same route to work every day, park in the same spot when we get there, and eat the same types of lunches from week to week.

This “routine-groove-rut” is exactly the kind of patterned behavior that prevents us from making new memories.  Here are 5 Cool Ideas on how to create new memories.

5 Cool Ideas for Creating Memories

From www.MichaelAngeloCaruso.com

1.  Living in the past doesn’t create memories.  
People who dwell on the past often develop a victim mentality about life.  Victims perceive life to be a series of negative occurrences because of things that have happened to them.

Their attitude seems to be “People have always taken advantage of me, so I’m not interested in meeting new people.”  Old scripts can be keeping you from enjoying new material.

2.  Invite new memories by rewriting your slate.  
John Locke Michael Angelo Caruso blogImprinting is a series of repetitive life lessons that help us determine our view of the world, including our self-concept. Most of us are indelibly imprinted early in life.  Philosopher, John Locke wrote that, as youngsters, our minds are “tabula rasa” or a blank slate.  Early on, people write on our slates, helping us create memories.

Some of us have trouble writing over those old memories.  When you can rewrite your slate, you can easily add new memories.  Computer experts might describe rewriting your slate as overwriting your disk.

3.  Accept that new invitation.  
George Herbert Walker Bush michael angelo caruso blogA female friend of mine was jogging when she encountered a group of strange men. The men identified themselves as secret service agents traveling with then President George Herbert Walker Bush.  My friend told me that the agents invited her to run with the President and his entourage the next morning.

She passed on the offer.  I asked her why she declined such a unique opportunity and my friend said, “I guess I didn’t feel like it.” Doing new things avails us to new memories, so make it a habit to step out of your routine.

Memories are generated by a process behavioral psychologists refer to as “experiential learning.”  New experiences, of course, are a form of imprinting, which helps us to create memories. Routines do not promote newness.

4.  The present is sometimes too predictable.   
People who only think about the present condition are so caught up in routines that they cannot seem to try new things.  In their determined effort to maintain status quo, they resist new opportunities, thus stifling the creation of new memories.

5.  Live as if you don’t have much time left.  
Impresario, Steve Jobs, urged us to not live other people’s lives. Do what you want to do.  Do it now.  Sociologists have discovered that people near death have an overwhelmingly common regret about their life.  They usually regret not trying more new things like traveling to foreign countries and meeting more people.

What have you always wanted to do? What would you do this year if you knew it would be your last year? Use the answers to these questions as incentive to generate new memories.
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More from Michael on his great blog.

Don’t veer for deer

Thursday, September 29th, 2011

deer driving michael angelo caruso blogI’m speaking in Jamaica and brought some reading material on the trip.

My September/October issue of AAA Living magazine features an interesting article on the dangers of “deering while driving.”  It got me thinking about how humans handle problems.

Apparently, there are 1.5 million car-deer collisions annually.  The magazine states that the crashes kill some 150 people.  These accidents aren’t healthy for the deer, either, as hardly any of them are wearing safety belts.


Here’s a surprising driving tip

The article lists three ways to avoid an unwanted wildlife encounter:

1)  Stay alert.  Deer are the most active at dawn and dusk.

2)  Deer travel in herds.  If you see one animal, there are probably many more nearby.

The third piece of advice is rather surprising:

3)  Don’t veer for deer.  Experts say that swerving is much more dangerous than hitting the animal.  Veering could easily introduce oncoming traffic or an unforgiving bridge abutment into the equation.


Sometimes, it’s best to face a problem head-on

Michael Angelo Caruso blog problem solvingThe “don’t veer for deer” lesson is a good metaphor for other types of problem-solving.

Of course, it’s always a good idea to stay alert for communication problems related to customer service, marketing, and such.  And yes, these problems often “travel in herds.”

Lots of us try to avoid problems by ignoring them, procrastinating or even denying the problems exist.

Yet, in many cases, it’s best to confront the problem head-on.  Face the problem as if you would position yourself directly in front of a camera.

Let the conundrum collide with your personal life or your work routine.  This will create a unique opportunity to uncover a solution.


More resources

For more safe driving tips, visit www.AAA.com/SafeDriving.

To get more tips for solving problems, listen to my Creating Success Habits audio CD.

Women’s lib, my butt

Tuesday, September 27th, 2011
Actress, Erin Cummings, second from left, and friends  Michael Angelo Caruso blog

Actress, Erin Cummings, second from left, and friends

Sure, women have come a long way, baby, but the glass ceiling hasn’t even been scratched, let alone broken.

Women hold more MBAs than men, but are employed in fewer executive positions for far less money.

The Troy Rotary Club of Michigan–I’m going to be President next year– is honoring Troy business women and women everywhere with its second annual Troy Business Woman of the Year Awards luncheon on Wednesday, October 5.

Detroit-area folks are welcome to attend and nominate.  Here are details.


Troy Rotary Business Woman of the Year Awards!

Mark Mullin Troy Rotary Michael Angelo Caruso blogThe Rotary Club of Troy will honor a number of women business leaders at a special luncheon on Wednesday, October 5th, 2011.

We’d love for you to participate in the “Troy Rotary’s Business Women of the Year” event as a nominee and/or an attendee.

We’ll interview the awardees to learn their business secrets and also hear from our guest speaker, Denise Roberts from Sales Partners.

Nominees must work in Troy, Michigan. Applicants or those who nominate the applicant should submit three-paragraphs explaining their accomplishments in noteworthy community involvement and business during the last 12 months.

Send your information to Linda K. Weaver at lkweaver@wowway.com.

Troy Rotary will take make a determination based on these accomplishments.

The luncheon will take place at the award-winning Bank of America building at 2600 Big Beaver Rd. (16 Mile Rd.) just east of Somerset North.  We enjoy fabulous food and the view of the outdoor fountain is magnificent most of the year.  Plus, there’s almost always an interesting guest speaker.

Please pay for lunch at the door– $15 cash or check per person.  (Your second lunch with Troy Rotary is no charge!)


Directions to Troy Rotary

Maureen McGinnis Michael Angelo Caruso blogHead west on Big Beaver so you can turn right onto Lakeview Drive between Somerset North and Bank of America.  Make an IMMEDIATE right into the first driveway.  This will take you into the guest parking lot.  Leave a few extra minutes to clear bank security at the front door.

This map may help:  http://tinyurl.com/TroyRotaryInvitation

Please be there a few minutes before noon on October 5 so you can network with Rotarians and guests.  Call Michael Caruso at (248) 224-9667 for more information

Bring your camera and lots of business cards and we’ll see you soon!  You will enjoy our fun members and they will enjoy you!


Nominating is easy!

Troy Rotary is honoring a number of Troy Business Woman at a special luncheon on Wednesday, October 5th.  You may nominate someone you know, ask someone to nominate you or nominate yourself.

Nominees must work in Troy and must be present to win.  Please provide the following information and submit to Linda K.Weaver at lkweaver@wowway.com by September 27.  Questions?  Call Michael Angelo Caruso at (248) 224-9667.


Info on nominee

You may copy/paste and e-mail info to Linda, above.


Requested info

Name of nominee _______________________________

Phone number _________________________________

E-mail address _________________________________

1.  Please tell us about your background as a business woman:

 

2.  Briefly list your business achievements during the past 12 months:

 

3.  Rotary is a community service organization.  Please tell us about any volunteer work you’ve done during the last year.  This includes “after hours” activities such as charity work, community projects, etc.

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Thank you!

We hope to see you at the October 5th luncheon at the award-winning Bank of America building at 2600 Big Beaver Rd. (16 Mile Rd.) just east of Somerset North.  We enjoy fabulous food and the view of the magnificent outdoor fountain. Lunch is $15 cash or check per person and your second lunch with Troy Rotary is free!

 

What if women ruled the world?

Of course, neither gender needs to “rule the world.”  We’re all together in this.  Still, it’s nice to honor area business ladies for a job well done!

 

5 cool ideas for remembering names

Friday, September 16th, 2011

Michael Angelo Caruso name badgeI once earned a speaking engagement by impressing Roxanne Gibbs, editor of The Nation, then a prominent Barbados newspaper.  I first met Roxanne and five of her friends in a banquet buffet line.   Later, she recounted that I remembered all of their names after the meal.


5 Cool Ideas for remembering names

1.  Use a system you can rely on.
People who use a memory device called mnemonics remember Pat’s name because she is wearing purple, but may struggle to recall Pat’s name when she wears brown.  Try to remember a person for who they are, rather than what they wear.

2.  Use “cluster imprinting” to learn names.
The goal of cluster imprinting is to imprint your brain with the person’s name eight to ten times within three minutes of meeting them.  Listen to the person say his or her name.  Then you might say “Catherine, it’s nice to meet you.”  You’ve now heard her name twice.

3.  Repetition is a form of practice.
After being introduced, you might say “Catherine, is that Catherine with a ‘C’ or Katherine with a ‘K’?”  The person could answer “‘Catherine’ with a ‘C’.”  Now you’ve heard the name five times and visualized it at least once.  If someone approaches you and Catherine, offer to introduce the new person. “Catherine, do you know Tom? Tom, this is Catherine.”  Now, you’ve been imprinted with Catherine’s name seven times.

4.  Practice remembering the name right up until you say “goodbye.”
When it’s time to excuse yourself, you might say “It’s been nice meeting you, Catherine,” which makes the eighth time your brain has been imprinted with her name.  You are not likely to forget “Catherine.”

5.  Use interval training to achieve total recall.
Try to recall the name at several intervals during the next 24 hours, stretching the time span for each attempt.  Another form of interval training is to review rosters and registration lists before and after the meeting.

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5 Cool Ideas book Michael Angelo Caruso blogThe above article is an excerpt from Michael Angelo Caruso’s book, 5 Cool Ideas available from Edison House.

Favorite first lines from books

Tuesday, September 13th, 2011

You may know that I’m a lifelong bachelor, so it wouldn’t surprise you to learn that I’ve got a special appreciation for good opening lines. And I’m not just talking about pick-up lines with the ladies.

Cool Ideas  book michael angelo caruso blogBooks are one of my passions, too.  I write them and read them.  Soon, I’ll be launching the second edition of my 5 Cool Ideas book.

I love to read books, too.  Yep.  Again this year, I will consume about 30 books and post the reading list on my website.

Recently, I was reading about famous first lines from books and wanted to share my favorites.  Here you go!


Favorite opening lines

“Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”  – Leo Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina

Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show.   – Charles Dickens’ David Copperfield

“It was a pleasure to burn.”  – Ray Bradbury’s Fahrenheit 451

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair.” – Charles Dickens’  A Tale of Two Cities

“Good is the enemy of great.”  – Jim CollinsGood to Great

“Who is John Galt?”  -Ayn Rand’s Atlas Shrugged

Do you have a favorite opening line from a book?

Meet people as fast as you can

Monday, August 1st, 2011
Quincy Jones Michael Angelo Caruso blog

Quincy Jones

I read Q:  The Autobiography of Quincy Jones a while back.

Quincy has had an amazing life.  Most people know him as the producer of Michael Jackson’s, Thriller, but Q has worked with hundreds of famous people, including Frank Sinatra, Lesley Gore, Ray Charles, Duke Ellington, Count Basie, and Miles Davis.

Originally a music arranger, Quincy met a lot of musicians before he turned 21-years-old.  By most accounts, Quincy took care of his relationships and one friendship led to another and so on, resulting in a lifetime of fruitful collaborations.


You only have to meet someone once

The French have a delightful way of saying “goodbye.”  They say, “à la prochaine,” which means, until the next time.

I like this way of signing off because it downplays “goodbye” and emphasizes the next hello.

alex mandossian michael angelo caruso blog

With Alex Mandossian in Los Angeles

For years, I’ve said “goodbye” to friends, retail clerks, and even strangers I meet by saying, “See you next time.”

Call me crazy, but I feel that once I meet someone, I never have to meet them again.

Once I begin a relationship with you, for example, we never have to start over again; we can merely pick up where we left off.

My friend, Alex Mandossian, one of the smartest Internet marketers in the land, likes to sign off with the phrase, “I hope our paths cross again.”  It’s the same concept.


People are your greatest resource

When asked to speak to students at commencements and other keynote events, I advise youngsters to meet people as fast as they can.  That way they can begin relationships that will serve them for decades.

Do this online, as well.  The average social media user has between 120 and 150 Facebook friends.  Increase that number for better-than-average return from your online networking.

This same principle can be applied in business when it comes to communicating, marketing, and even blogging.  Just try to connect in meaningful ways.  Give continuous value to people.

And like Quincy, meet people as fast as you can.

-Michael Angelo Caruso, Royal Oak, Michigan