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Good deeds have a life of their own

Sunday, February 27th, 2011

RYLA with Michael Angelo CarusoIt’s happened again.

I made time for community involvement a while back and it’s turned into something big.  Isn’t that how good deeds are supposed to work?

Way back in November, I dedicated a weekend to teaching about 100 area high school students leadership skills.  It was a tough gig, by most standards.  Over 13 hours of class time, not including prep.

The event was sponsored by Rotary District 6400 in southeastern, Michigan.  They hold this Rotary Youth Leadership Awards (RYLA) weekend every year and its director, Dr. Jim Karolyi, does a fantastic job putting it together.

Speaking to 100 young people is not exactly my specialty, but I tried to have fun with it.  Well, something just happened that showed me the gig was well worth the effort.

Ron Warren, one of the young people attending the event, was given an award by the Rotary Club of Lincoln Park, Michigan and I just read got to read about it.  The News-Herald, the local newspaper, interviewed Ron and I’ll be darned if the young man didn’t mention my name.  A lot.

Read the interview for yourself and see if it doesn’t make you smile.

I’m grateful for the shoutout, Ron.  Reading about your award reminds me of how impressed I was with the quality of students at RYLA 2010.  Thanks for helping make community involvement so rewarding, Mr. Warren.

So, it’s official; I’m a hero!

And it’s addicting.  Dr. Karolyi has asked me to speak again at his 2011 event.

5 reasons to blog–even if nobody reads it

Friday, February 25th, 2011

Michael Angelo Caruso blogging Internet marketingMost people haven’t figured out blogging, yet. That’s because blogging, that is writing, is a discipline like playing the trumpet or flying an airplane.  Or juggling.  It takes time and effort to make it worthwhile.  It also helps to be motivated, which usually happens when one is a little knowledgeable about the discipline.

Here are 5 reasons to blog, even if nobody reads it, followed by a chance for you to learn more from a soccer mom I interviewed who now gets paid to blog for other people.

1.  Search perks. Internet search engines love fresh content.  Since blogs, especially WordPress blogs, are easily updated your company is more likely to be found even if you create a blog post once per week.   Blogs are the new Web sites.

2.  Perpetual value. Time and again, I am contacted by people who tell me they read an old blog post and liked what I had to say.  Some of these folks turn into customers.  Your blog content keeps working for you year after year!

3.  Drip marketing. Periodic blog posts are a great way to keep in touch.  People will never forget about you because they are always being reminded.  Rig your social media sites to automatically post blog articles.

4.  Virtual salesperson. SAP advertises training services in a sidebar on its blog.  Wegmans grocery store blogs about recipes that use their food products.

5.  Massive public relations reach. If your blog is consistently good, you may get picked up by an aggregation service.  When this happens, your lil’ ol’ blog could be read by hundreds of thousands of people!

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Paula Parisot

Soccer mom and paid blogger, Paula Parisot

A while back, I interviewed Paula Parisot, a soccer mom who now gets paid for blogging.  A non-techie by her own admission, Paula talks about how she does it and shares valuable tips on how you can get started doing the same.  That is, unless you can’t use the money.  Learn more Blogging for Profit by listening to this fun CD.

It was fun interviewing Paula.  She takes a “real-world” approach to things and I think you’ll like her!

-Michael Angelo Caruso

Royal Oak, Michigan

5 Cool Ideas for a better presentation

Thursday, February 10th, 2011

Michael Angelo Caruso IACPA Iowa accountantsSpeaking is a lot like driving.  We all think we’re good drivers, but there are a lot of dented cars on the road!

Here are 5 Cool Ideas for sharpening your next presentation, followed by a link to order my Present Like a Pro DVD:

1.  It’s better to make mistakes when you’re alone.
I teach managers and salespeople how to be more effective.  The fastest improvement occurs when clients adopt my motto:  It’s better to screw up when you’re alone.

2.  Practice the beginning of your talk more than any other part.
Your nervous system is most likely to be under siege at the beginning of your presentation.  Practice the first part of your talk more than the middle or the end.

3.  Call your own voice mail to record sections of your presentation.
Use this “poor man’s” recording technique to listen to yourself and make improvements.

4.  PowerPoint often hurts more than it helps.
Stories are far more effective than bullet points because people tend to make buying decisions using the “emotional side” of the brain.  Use stories to inspire, motivate, and get the audience involved.  Develop a strong “signature story” and work it, baby.

5.  Be specific with your time-sensitive call to action.
All good presentations end with a clear call to action.  Don’t say “Please take this form back to your office and send it to me when you have time,” when you can say, “Please fill out this form before you leave the room.  I’ll be at the door to collect it from you.”

Order the Present Like a Pro DVD now!  It will be especially helpful to your leadership and sales team!

Place your order within 48 hours and I’ll immediately e-mail you a fantastic 30-page, companion e-book at no extra charge.  Watch for it and download it quickly.

As with all my products and services, you’ll get much more than you pay for.

Speaking about speaking,

Michael Angelo Caruso, Keynote Speaker                  T   248-224-9667  

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Hey, speakers–Here are 3 tips to improve presentations

Tuesday, February 8th, 2011

Michael Angelo Caruso Present Like a Pro DVDThe ability to make effective, persuasive presentations is almost an art form.

I often compare the art of presenting to a golf swing.  Both activities have a lot going on–and a lot that can go wrong.

Here are a few speaking tips to take your speaking to another level:

1. Personally greet people before you begin speaking. You’ll be much more effective if you build rapport with individual audience members in advance of your talk.  This is also a great way to settle your nerves, if you find yourself anxious prior to speaking.

2. Speak to the four different personality styles in your audience. Thinkers like to hear statistics, so give them facts and figures.  Directors like you to get to the bottom line; be succinct for them.  Relaters want you to identify with them, so tell stories.  Socializers want to have fun and laugh, so don’t take yourself too seriously.

3. End the speech using the same words and phrases you used at the beginning of your talk. This technique is called “bookending” and it’s the hallmark of a professional speaker.  Bookending helps you finish your talk with style and flair.

Thanks for your interest in self-improvement!  If you’d like to become a better presenter, it’s better to watch video than read a book on the subject.  Reading a book about speaking is like listening to the radio to learn how to dance.

That’s why I produced a DVD titled, Present Like a Pro, a 45-minute video that tells–and more importantly shows–my best speaking tips.  As always, you’ll get much more than you pay for with my products.  A 100% unconditional refund if you’re unhappy with this product for any reason.

It pays to write goals down

Saturday, January 8th, 2011

1 calendar dateBehavioral psychologists say it takes about 21 days to make–or break–a habit.

So, if you’ve made a New Year’s Resolution and are already slipping, there’s still time to turn things around.

One of the easiest things you can do to achieve a goal is to write it down.  The very act of putting pen to paper helps clarify whatever you’re thinking about.  When you write down your goal, you create a living document that can be posted or revisited.  Reviewing the document provides serious emotional reinforcement.

Many smart people in history have become known for writing things down.

Once, there was a guy named Tim Matlock.  He was an architect who served on a committee to improve government.

Known to be a good writer with excellent penmanship, Tim was asked to create an official handwritten version of a very important document.  As clerk to the Secretary of the Continental Congress, Tim Matlock–Timothy Matlock–was chosen to inscribe the Declaration of Independence, perhaps one of the greatest goals ever put to paper.

Matlock’s work is now on display in the National Archives.

Writing down your goals is a very good idea!

-Michael Angelo Caruso, Communication That Means Business, www.MichaelAngeloCaruso.com

9 ways for getting to “yes”

Thursday, December 23rd, 2010

No matter how you earn a living, you are in the selling business.  In fact, your ability to persuade is central to your success.

That’s why you must know how to deal with objections.  Here’s what to do when someone says, “no.”  (An excerpt of this post appears on my DBusiness magazine blog.)


1.  Listen to what they don’t say.

In this instance, the customer has concerns with your offering but doesn’t inform you. These types of “invisible” objections are deadly because they’re not evidential.  The best way to uncover hidden objections is to let the prospect talk more.

Ask open-ended questions, lean forward, listen intently, and watch for “tells” or physical indications of what the person is thinking.  The more a prospect talks to you, the more likely that he or she will articulate what’s keeping him from buying in.


2.  Appreciate the show-off.

Sometimes prospects try to show you how much they already know about your product or service.  These people are often looking for a form of appreciation or validation, so give it to them.  Tell the person how impressed you are by how much they know.  Make your message sincere and he is much more likely to warm up to you and your message.


3.  Validate the know-it-all.

These types of objections offer empirical evidence that counter your message.  People who make these objections need to be intellectually convinced that your idea is a good one.  Unfortunately, know-it-all types are not likely to change their minds.  Rather than trying to convince them, use a negotiation technique called “triangulation.”

For example, if you are working with someone on a customer service initiative, respectively remind the know-it-all that what matters most is what the customer thinks.  In other words, use the customer’s preference as a trump card to take the objection off the table and allow your agenda to move forward.


4.  Include higher authority early on.

You have made your presentation and everything is going great.  Then, the person suddenly announces that he needs to take the idea to his boss or another third-party.  You can overcome the higher authority objection by making sure that third-party is involved early.  Always ask this question early in the persuasion process:  “Who else has a stake in this?”


5.  Not everyone likes you; get over it.

These ad hominem objections are aimed at you as a person.  If this happens, it’s important to not become defensive.  A second technique is to replace yourself as the persuader so that someone with more appeal closes the deal.


6.  The “Feel, Felt, Found” technique nips excuses in the bud.

Excuses are usually reflexive answers to a persuasion message, but they don’t have to be deal breakers. The best salespeople nod, smile, agree with the person, and then ask a question to take control of the conversation.

The very best way to this type of resistance is to say something like:  “I understand.  Many people in your situation feel the same way when I first talk to them.  But they all felt better when they found out how good this product works!”


7.  Malicious Objections

You will occasionally call on people who are unhappy or angry about their current situations. These people tend to be negative in their demeanor and behavior.  The best way to deal with malicious objections is to not take their message personally.  Think QTIP—Quit Taking It Personally.  Remain calm, confident, positive, and polite throughout the interchange.


8.  Request For Information

We like it when folks ask for more details about what we’re offering because it often indicates a level of interest.  But beware—sometimes this request is a stall technique or an attempt to shut down the message.  Make every effort to have the answers to all questions available during the initial appeal.  If you must follow up, do so in short order, always with an agreement that if you provide the requested information, there will be forward motion on the offer.


9.  People don’t like to be sold to.

Conquer all forms of sales resistance by quickly developing trust and rapport. Aaah, the devil is always in the details!


More info:

You may re-publish this article in your company newsletter or on your blog. Simply provide attribution by including www.MichaelAngeloCaruso.com and send the newsletter or link that includes my content to http://www.michaelangelocaruso.com/contact-me/.

For more ideas on how to teach these valuable techniques to your work team, call Michael at 248-224-9667.

Differentiation– a key to success (Part 2 of 2)

Monday, December 20th, 2010

In Part 1 of this blog post on product/service differentiation, I wrote about how I helped a large regional bank in Ohio distinguish itself from the competition by differentiating its customer service.

I explained to my audience–and in the blog post–how this is done in the restaurant business.

In this post, I’ll relate a story about how my old newspaper person accidentally provided service differentiation, which resulted in increased tips.

Back then, newspaper carriers were called “paperboys.” I subscribed to the Detroit Free Press, which was delivered without fail at 5:00 AM every morning. I was often awake at that time, but rarely met the carrier on the porch. I would hear the paper thwack against the porch pavement and then go out to retrieve it.  So, I never got to meet my paperboy.

On Friday of every week there was an envelope in the paper from an “L. Baker” instructing for me to write a check, insert it into the envelope and leave it in my mailbox for the carrier to snag it.

One day, I found a note with the pay envelope.  The note read:

paperboy girl note 1995Dear Customers,

For the next 4 weeks there will be a sub doing my route. I had my baby on Sunday, 4-01-95. She and I are doing fine. I will be taking a few weeks off to rest up. If you have any problems with your service, please call my manager, Joe Moore at 287-0610.

Your carrier,
Lisa Baker

Baby!? Lisa Baker?  I had to rethink everything I knew about my “paperboy,” which, admittedly, was very little.

I also–and this is a key point about service differentiation–began to tip my papergirl quite heavily.  I happily did this even though the customer service hadn’t changed.  My perception of the service provider had changed drastically and I felt as I felt more obligated to ante up.

I don’t think Lisa had kept her gender a secret and I don’t think she disclosed her new baby to make more money, but I’ll bet I wasn’t the only customer who began to tip more.

The point is that customers often appreciate service providers who are just a bit different.  If you provide a service, try to arrange customer interaction that is clever, original, fun or just plain human.

When speaking, less is sometimes more

Friday, December 10th, 2010

Here’s a fun video that underscores how important it is to shut up once in a while.

This is especially true during any presentations that you give.  You should always remember to give your audience time to think, laugh, and react to your content.

I am constantly reminding salespeople and CEOs how valuable it can be to pause when speaking in meetings, sales presentations, and your holiday work party.

Watch–I mean listen–to what happens when my cameraman goes rogue and does a lo-o-o-o-ng unplanned pan of the crowd.  I abruptly stop talking for almost 20 seconds–and the audience loves it!

Get more great tips for improving your presentation from the popular Present Like a Pro DVD.

The Beatle business

Wednesday, December 8th, 2010
The Fab Four

The Fab Four

On the anniversary of John Lennon’s death, I’m remembering how many people thought John was the leader of The Beatles, while Paul did 80% of the work.

The Beatles was a strange little business entity that only lasted for about ten years.   The company turned a pretty good profit and customers seemed to enjoy its products and services. The company had four managing partners; four distinct and disparate personalities.

John was the poet of the group, the relater.  He wore spectacles and liked to write.  He composed songs with titles like Imagine and In My Life.  You’d have to be a relater to write songs with those titles.  He cultivated a personal creed:  Give peace a chance (also a pretty cool song).

George Harrison was the thinker of the group. He was the first of the four to travel to India to study transcendental meditation with the Maharishi. A quiet personality by comparison, George learned how to play a sophisticated stringed instrument called the sitar. He eventually released a slew of solo albums, choosing to call one of them, All Things Must Pass.

Paul McCartney was the director type personality. Paul was the leader of the group almost since its inception, which surprises a lot of people because he was the “cute” one and because John was often the spokesperson.

Efficiency and productivity are very important to directors, so Paul often took charge in the studio.  He even took over the other Beatles’ instruments on occasion. Paul knew what he wanted and was extremely dedicated to making it happen.

In some ways, rampant productivity is therapeutic to directors like Paul. When John was assassinated on December 8, 1980, the media wanted Paul’s reaction, but they couldn’t find him until the next day. The reporters shoved a microphone in his face as he was on his way . . . to the recording studio.

When his longtime wife died, Paul worked through the grieving process his own way – - by recording a collection of tunes and dedicating the package to his recently deceased Linda.

Finally, Ringo Starr was the socializer of the group. He’s had his share of problems with addiction. Ringo sang lyrics for the band like “don’t pass me by” and “we all live in a yellow submarine.”

Around 1967, the Beatles were under deadline on a major project.  They had yet to achieve consensus on basic decisions such as the new product’s packaging and their producer George Martin, was growing frustrated.

After weeks of trying to get the lads to work it out, Martin finally said, “Bullocks to this!” and made the cover of the album white.  And that’s how we got The White Album.

The album won all kinds of awards for creativity.

R.I.P., John Lennon.

Who is your favorite Beatle and why?

-Michael, www.MichaelAngeloCaruso.com

5 cool ideas for dealing with critics

Friday, November 26th, 2010

From www.MichaelAngleoCaruso.com

Opening for the New Kids on the Block in the late 80s

Opening for the New Kids on the Block in the late 80s

When I was young, I toured the country in a rock band.  Although our band was popular, we endured the wrath of critics.  It seems that everyone has an opinion on music so I experienced critics in that worked in the media, critics in our audiences and even critics in my neighborhood.  As a professional speaker and published author, critics are still in my life.  Here are 5 Cool Ideas for dealing with critics

1.  Patterned criticism can be more valuable than isolated criticism. Isolated diatribes may contain useful information, but consider it an education when the same types of criticism arrive from different sources.  One episode of criticism in February may not be as important as seven episodes in the first quarter.

2.  Consider the source of the critique. The word “critique” sounds refined and polite.  Yet the process of self-discovery can be painful, especially if you have help.  Who is “helping” you?  Consider the source of the critique.  Is the person educated or intelligent with a background on the pertinent issues?   Is it a person with an agenda?  Is it someone who, in his or her way is trying to help or is the criticism meant to me damaging and discouraging?

It may be helpful to think about who is not criticizing you.  For example, your boss may be offering criticism but your customers love you.  Do you even know who the critic is?

3.  Anonymous critics only seem more threatening. Anonymous critics sometimes have more vitriol and less etiquette, perhaps because the person thinks he or she will never have to face you.  You will be tempted to spend inordinate amounts of time identifying the source of such comments.

4.  Confrontation is your friend. If you know who your critic is, you can confront them on the issue.  Too often, however, you will be trying to change the person’s opinion about you or your work.  This can be a fruitless endeavor.  It may be a better exercise to confront yourself.  Try re-calibrating your ego and sensitivity before trying to change someone’s mind.  Besides, it is not a realistic goal to please everyone.

Even the most successful people have detractors.  Sometimes, the more successful you are, the more detractors you have.

5.  Of course, no one can hurt you. For more information, see my booklet, Hmmm . . . Little Ideas With BIG Results.  One of the ideas is that if you are good person who does good things that no one can hurt you.  The worst gossip about you cannot do you harm if you lead a good life.  No one can undo your deeds with their words.

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